From Calming Your Mind to Receiving Insight - The Evolution (Part 1)

Meditation and the Nature of the Mind

In this first part, we explore meditation, mindfulness, and the internal practices that support a calmer, more balanced inner world.

One of the most common questions people ask is: How do you calm the mind so you can even try meditating? Practice is key to bringing greater focus to the mind—specifically, quieting what the Vedas refer to as vrittis, the constant fluctuations of thought.

In today’s modern world, this challenge is completely understandable. We are constantly surrounded by stimulation and the never-ending list of things to do, making it difficult to unplug and switch off.

Meditation can feel especially hard at the beginning. Like any skill, however, it becomes easier over time with consistency. And big picture, we’ve never really learned to go inward and focus only on the outside, which compounds the initial unnatural and even uncomfortable feeling of settling the mind.

Starting Small: Five Miracle Minutes

A simple and effective way to begin is by committing to just five minutes a day. Even this

small amount of time can create noticeable shifts in your internal environment. As your inner state begins to change, you will start to notice changes in the world around you too.

This is the deeper magic that we will come back to later…

Five minutes is manageable, even with a busy schedule. Setting a timer can help you stay present without worrying about the time. You may also choose to create a dedicated meditation space or practice at a consistent time each day. While this can support the habit by establishing both internal and external patterns, it is not essential.

Meditation can be practiced anywhere—whether in your garden, in your car before work, before or after meals, in the shower or any quiet moment you can find.

As you begin to feel the benefits, maintaining the practice becomes easier, even essential, to keep you out of the typical stress caused by an overthinking mind. Any initial effort you put into this practice will benefit you tenfold, so keep going!!

The Foundation of Stillness: Returning to the Breath

This practice I’m sharing with you below focuses on stillness, beginning with the breath. The breath is a powerful anchor for attention. It is always with you, naturally occurring, and closely connected to the body. The best part is that while you are gently following the flow of your breath, you actually can’t be overthinking at the exact same time.

Try this simple yet powerful practice -

Start by finding a comfortable seated position. Comfort is important so that physical discomfort does not become a distraction. While lying down is an option, it may lead to falling asleep, so sitting is generally recommended—especially in the beginning.

Once you are settled, gently close your eyes and bring your awareness to your breath. Begin by simply noticing the inhale and the exhale.

Observing the Breath and the Mind

As you continue breathing, allow the breath to gradually slow down. This naturally encourages relaxation. Stay with the rhythm of your breath—simply inhaling and exhaling.

It is very common for the mind to wander, especially at first. Five minutes may feel long because the thinking mind is used to constant activity. As you begin to quiet it, thoughts may even become more persistent. This is completely normal.

Rather than resisting, simply notice when the mind wanders and gently return your focus to the breath, without self-judgment. Remember, this is a practice, not something to perfect ;)

Deepening Awareness Through Sensation

As you continue, begin to feel into the breath. Notice how the inhale feels, and how the exhale feels. Avoid creating stories or interpretations—just observe the sensations.

You might notice the air moving through your nostrils or the rise and fall of your chest and torso. As your breath slows, you may begin to deepen it, allowing for fuller breaths. This deepening stimulates the vagus nerve to relax the nervous system, which in turn helps the body relax, and as the body relaxes, the mind follows.

With this relaxation, accessing more quietness in the mind becomes easier.

Cultivating Patience and Presence

Patience is essential. Allow whatever arises to pass through your awareness without resistance. Some days will feel easier than others, and that is perfectly normal, even with more experience.

There is nothing wrong if your mind continues to think—that is its nature. Sometimes things will arise for your attention. This doesn’t mean that you are doing it wrong. Quite the contrary, as this opening in your energy can be a doorway to show you what is sitting out of alignment with your peace and is asking to be seen, so you can find another way.

A peaceful mind and heart come with practice and are not something we have ever been taught that can even exist for us. Creating a new pattern in our generally repetitive behaviour simply takes time and repetition.

Keep going and continue with gentle, steady breathing, returning again and again to the present moment, especially when you are feeling stressed.

A Simple Technique to Reduce Stress

This practice is one of my favourite which can be used in the moment when feeling stress rise. Over time, it trains your nervous system to hold a calm state more easily and often.

I call it the 3-minute breathing space -

• Begin by joining your thumb and index finger while taking a slow, deep breath in and out.

• Move your thumb to your middle finger, repeating the breath.

• Then to your ring finger, again breathing in and out.

• Then to your small finger, continuing the same rhythm.

Next, move to your other hand:

• Join the thumb and small finger, breathing in and out, slowing it down.

• Move to the ring finger, then the middle finger, and then the index finger, each time taking a slow, gentle, full breath.

Then, reverse the sequence:

• Move back from index to middle, ring, and small finger on the second hand, breathing even more deeply as your body naturally relaxes.

• Return to the first hand, moving from small to ring, middle, and finally back to the index finger.

There is no rush. Move at your own pace, allowing each breath to be gentle, not forced, full and steady.

Returning and Noticing the Shift

Once you complete the sequence, take a moment to notice how you feel. Observe your breath—it will feel calmer and more natural if you allow yourself to follow the sequence described. The mind will also feel more settled.

This stillness is always available. Even a few minutes of conscious breathing can reconnect you to the peacefulness of the present moment, as the thinking mind gets some well-deserved rest.

Closing the Practice

To finish, take a deep breath in. As you exhale, begin to gently bring movement back into

your body—wiggling your fingers and toes. When you feel ready, slowly open your eyes.

This is a simple yet powerful practice centered on the grace of the gentle breath. While it may not feel easy at first, especially if you are new to meditation, it becomes more natural with time—just like learning to ride a bike.

Give yourself the space and patience to learn and experience what is possible when you operate from a calm, steady place. With consistency, you will begin to notice profound, meaningful changes in how you act and react in your life.

If you have any questions, feel free to reach out.

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